It is not a secret that swinging involves different kinds of sexual activities. There are quite a lot of swinging couples who love to have same-sex adventures, although in most cases it is limited to female same-sex activities. Male swingers, ones who are comfortable with having sex with another male, can also be found getting involved in same-sex activities. But does swinging require you to be bisexual? Absolutely not!

I have met several female swingers who love to explore their sexuality by engaging sexual acts with another female playmate, or even several female playmates. Still, there are other sexual experiences that can be obtained by embracing the swinging lifestyle including watching other couple have sex, swapping partners — whether for soft swinging or for full intercourse — and of course group sex especially in on-premise swinging events. As you can see, you don’t have to be bisexual to enjoy swinging; there are countless other sexual activities and fantasies that you can enjoy with your spouse that don’t involve same-sex playmates.

Swinging is all about exploring what you are really comfortable with sexually and fulfilling fantasies; if you are not comfortable with same-sex acts then you don’t have to force yourself to do it. Just start with what you and your spouse really want, and take it one step at a time from there. If you are bisexual, you will see a lot of opportunities to explore that side of yourself. If you are not, there is no need to change yourself and there are countless other pleasures to explore.

It is only natural that you feel jealous when you see your spouse with someone else. This is not the case with swingers though; swingers have a good foundation of trust to actually allow spouses to have recreational sex without feeling jealous whatsoever. If you are thinking about swinging, jealousy is definitely an issue you need to work on before you go any further.

Dealing with jealousy is a tricky business indeed. You are not only dealing with your jealousy seeing your spouse with other person, but you also need to make sure your actions don’t trigger jealousy. When starting to get to know the lifestyle, this is probably the most difficult challenge. I had the same problem with jealousy when I first started swinging, and I found out that the best way to deal with it is to take everything one step at a time and communicate openly about every action.

Honesty is always the best policy. Be honest about your feelings upon things and let your spouse know that they should be honest about their feelings as well. It may also help to set a couple of ground rules before you engage more serious swinging activities; describe what you and your spouse are comfortable with, set some rules, and stick to it. Never go a step further before you are sure both of you are comfortable — this includes having no jealousy. If you follow these tips, I’m sure you will be able to take the swinging experiences beyond jealousy and have an even more fun with your spouse.